Category Archives: life

Yes We Can!

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We knew about this while it was still in the works (notice Herbie at the end), but I see that it’s just now starting to make the blog rounds. I’m not the most politically active gal on the block, but I do pretty much keep up on things. Seeing this video for the first time the other night, I have to say, I think it’s mighty powerful.

And yet again, Will.I.Am has done an amazing job in organizing the entertainment industry together for a cause. He’s a cool ass guy and knows how to get folks involved!

Not too Bad

I managed to pull it together and actually get some shit done today. Go me!

I’ve been wanting to create a vision board for the past couple of weeks now, but I’ve never really been able to commit to it. Or maybe I just didn’t have that creative vibe going on. Well, I still did exactly get a vision board/map up and running, but I did go through a bunch of magazines and cut out a bunch of empowering words and phrases. I figure that’s enough for now. Now I just need to figure out how to glue things onto the papers (told you I wasn’t feeling all that creative).

I did realize though that right now, I think I want to focus on my sites’ blog and doing some digital coaching (which I’ve discussed here before). I figure that right now, it motivates and excites me (that’s a HUGE plus) and let’s me kind of ease back into lifestyle coaching. Who knows, maybe I’ll try my book that folks having been lecturing on being inside of me since I was around eight – yes, the reading today mentioned the book yet again! Either way, it will give me a bit of a break from all the recent drama and let me build my self-confidence back up again (how humilitating to admit that).

This of course, is part of the reason that I’ve yet to write out my business vision – or so I seem tell myself. It’s amazing how we can let fear get in our way some times. I mean, I know that deep down, I’m good at what I do. I also know that I can succeed at anything I put my mind to. But for some reason, I just don’t seem to want to commit to writing this vision. Don’t get me wrong, the perfectionist in me won’t let me not do it (it’s a homework assignment after all). So until then, I’ll see how much longer I can procrastinate here with my little ‘ol blog.

Or maybe I’ll tidy around my desk for a bit first. Really, there’s only so long that someone can be expected to function well while being over-run by cases of wine and stacks of magazines needing to be filed. That should buy me a few minutes. I’ve already [finally] gotten out of my PJs (yet another embarrassing tidbit to share), taken out the trash and dropped the crushed boxes (from behind my chair) off in the recycling bin. Oh and I need to dig out the warranty papers for our freezer and deal with all that before our house starts to stink something fierce.

Crap, I need to get some fruit for the fruit salad yet too!

I’ll get to my Vision, I promise…

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ETA:  It’s now 7:07 and I am finished!! The office is cleaner, my gifties are all done, and my LWL homework is finished.  I have a Vision all written up and dammit if I don’t rock my own socks off!  😉

Is it Just Me…

Or has this week just blown on by?  I’ve been behind in my blogs all week – to the point that no matter how many I read, every time I look, my Reader says I have 100 (give or take) still to read.

One of our LWL homework assignments was to create a list of five things that we need to accomplish this week (biz related) and you know, accomplish them.  Um, I’ve only done one thing.  Though in my defense, I’ve done it to excess – I said I’d contact 5 potential blog writers and I reached out to 16!  I have meetings scheduled with two of them next week and have that second interview to work through as well.

And of course, this isn’t even counting the rest of my LWL homework I still have to do – my vision, re-do one of my elevator speeches and I still have to finish up my gifties for everyone.  I also have to make a fruit salad for tomorrow’s final meeting/party.  Whew, I’m tired already and it’s only 11:00!

Oh yeah, I also have a reading to do in a bit (assuming she can still do it since she left some wacky message about being confused with the times).  I don’t do many readings any more, so once I finish up here I’ll need to get myself in the right frame of mind.  And of course, looking around casually while I type, I don’t see my cards jumping out at me.  No wait, found them.

And in frazzled closing…our upright freezer (you know, FULL of food) died last night.  I heard a weird noise, then a weird smell.  And well, now our FULL freezer is useless and of course, we have buttloads of food to throw out, including the yummy soup I made the other night with all intentions of freezing.  I don’t get it though, we had an upright when I was a kid (back in the day when shit lasted, I’d guess) and that thing was rock solid for years and years.  I don’t think it died until I was in my mid-20’s.  And this piece of crap, not even five years!  That’s just wrong.

Okay, time for me to get busy.  Happy Friday to you all!

Who Doesn’t Deserve a Cupcake!

Okay, well I’m sure I can think of a few people that might not deserve a cupcake.  But dammit, I just completed one awesome interview with Liza Palmer (http://lizapalmer.com  – my links are working with me today) and lo’ and behold, there was a cupcake shop right next door.  And really, who doesn’t deserve a cupcake, right?  So mocha it was – and I washed it down with a sugar-free, non-fat caramel macchiato…yum!  What a great day so far!

Some other cool things…1) author extraordinaire, Liza gave me tons of info for reaching out to publicists.  Hopefully I can get some other author interviews lined up.  Mind you,they won’t exactly have the ease of in person, so I’ll surely have to get much better at my interviewing skills.  But I’m up for it!  So we’ll be adding that to my list of things to do this week. And 2) I’m getting some responses to my request for bloggers and experts for my site’s blog.  I just love when the universe works it’s magic!

What I learned today…

1) I’m apparently a lousy excuse for a California gal – let’s keep in mind that I’m far from being a native!

2) Not a fan of the artichoke – even when I’m promised by the waitress that theirs is the absolute best and will spoil me for all others.

3) The oh.my.god that is Sees chocolates is kind of lost on me.  I just thought it was just your basic chocolate.  But apparently, it has some sort of cult following and both Liza and our adorable waitress thought I was nuts for not knowing of it’s other worldliness.  Maybe I’ll look into that.

4) I guess I also fail in the key lime department.  I guess it causes shock waves in the atmosphere to not want key lime pie.  Who knew?  I was fine with the brownie thing though (and then of course on top of that, the mocha cupcake).

So now I need to edit the interview.  And of course, then have the hubby re-edit the interview.  I hope to have it up some time next week.  Can’t wait!

And did I mention that I have three books to read in two weeks and turn in some sort of review!!  Nothing like having a little deadline. Well, I did say that I wanted something to do during the day.  Thank you Universe!  And now, I’m off to respond to blogging requests and get started on at least one of those books.

Seven-Word Wisdom

I was reading about this seven-word wisdom over at the NYT.  Lest you think I actually read the NYT, I followed a biz blog link to the article – trust me, I’m not that wordly. But this blog thing, that’s an entirely different story.

I think it’s a great concept.  Basically, you create 2-3-2 word sequences sharing advice.  What fun, right?  Considering I have to create descriptions for my fellow launchers, I thought this might put me in the right creative frame of mind.

Here are a couple of mine.  Mind you, this kind of speaks to where my head is at (sorta)…

Don’t procrastinate.  Get things done. Much easier.

Think positive. Good things come.  Let go.

Avoid negativity.  Not your shit.  Their perceptions.

 Here are a couple that resonated with me…

Stand up. When you fall. Stand up again.

 Be present. Embrace goodness. Celebrate life.

Share freely. Don’t expect reciprocation. Be surprised.

What seven-word wisdom do you have to share?

 

 

Messages From the Great Beyond

 I was catching up on my blogs (and boy howdy do I read a lot of blogs lately – but I’m learning a LOT from it) and came across not one, but two interesting, just-what-I-needed sort of messages.  Leave it to Seth Godin – this guy really is pretty amazing.

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First a couple days ago I came across this peach of an idea about the shortage of digital coaches.  I really think it could be something I could do and do well.  Hell, I’m always telling someone about SEOs and how useful blogging can be to build a clientele, the best email and other online resources that are available and blah, blah.  And it would be a great match for desire to help women starting out in business and whatnot.  Definitely something to consider…

Here are three things that are true:
1. Digital technology, especially computers and cell phones, can dramatically increase productivity.
2. More and more users of digital technology are small firms or individuals.
3. The vast majority of users of digital technology are totally lame in getting the most out of the investment of their time and money.

Here’s what I haven’t found: people who charge $100 an hour to hear what you do and how you do it and then show you how to do it better. People who organize data and put it in the right place. People who overhaul the way small groups use technology so they can use it dramatically better. More examples: Teach people to back up. Show them how to check their email on the road. Help them understand how to use online networking when it’s appropriate (and warn them when it’s not). Show a restaurant how to use OpenTable to keep the place full, or to use a blog (with an RSS feed) to easily communicate with loyal customers. Teach a company to keep tabs on itself with Technorati.

This is a growth area. The tools are finally in place to market yourself, and even better, the productivity increases you can produce for $500 or $1,000 are not just valuable, they’re actually priceless.

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Then yesterday he had this gem of a message for me regarding bad judgement

Try this on: “If I believed what you believe, I’d probably be acting exactly the same way you are right now.” (Better thought than said, probably).

You know what, that’s almost certainly true… if I believed what you said when you wrote that angry blog post*, I probably would have written the same thing.

Once we realize that it’s not a matter of judgment, but a matter of belief, everything changes.

* or whatever random rant can be inserted here

LWL: Week 2 Homework

Okay, better late then never, right?

Last week’s ongoing homework assignment you might recall was to take notice of forward movement (still more amazing things happening with this), taking time to do nice things for ourselves (this is actually quite easy for me, but surprisingly, some gals in my group had challenges with this), and lastly, to keep cleaning up that junk to allow for more to flow into our life (this I’m still working on).  The big assignment was to write Grand Visions for each other.

I had fun writing these visions for others, but I was a little afraid of how it would go reading and allowing the ones written for me.  I was mostly afraid because I wasn’t sure I presented myself all that well or clearly (since my head was in a strange place).  But really, I should have known it would all work out.  I was thrilled and motivated by the visions that were created for me.

Since receiving my visions I have taken quite a few forward moving steps…first and foremost, finding someone to run my previous business for me; I’ve got an author interview set up for next Monday for my site’s blog; finally wrote a batch of heartfelt thank you’s for my friends that have supported me through some recent stuff; contacted someone regarding their web design (I’m loving that simple, elegant look; and thanks to this week’s homework (outlined below) I’ve got a list of women to contact regarding writing for my site’s blog and products for giveaways.  Overall, not bad movement for a Wednesday!

So for this week’s assignments, we have to do the following:

  • Inform 5 people (strangers, friends, biz relations, etc) about our new launching business – I’ve told a few folk, but I really need to hunker down and throw some intention and purpose behind it.
  • Create a list of 4 needs (can be related to the launch – mine were) and 2 secret weapons to share with our group and answer each and every need for each member – I loved this exercise!  Just actually sitting down and asking for something and getting suggestions and answers instead of just trudging along as is and getting nowhere. Again, just putting it out there has already brought me some returns – I was contacted today by someone that would like to blog for me – yay!
  • Create my elevator speech – you know, that 15 or so second response to “so, what do you do?” I still have to work on mine.  I’m a little stuck though as I’m not sure if I want to focus on my site’s blog (so that can start working on it’s own) or my launch biz so I can start feeling like I’m doing some fulfilling work – well gee, when I put it that way, I guess I’ll be focusing on the launch project 😉  I love that it’s supposed to short, sweet and tot he point…1) I am ___.  2) I do ___  3) for ___ .4) I need ___.  You can’t go wrong with that model to follow.  Here’s what I’ve got “I am LABG and I work with women to help them rediscover joy in their lives.  I need women who want to make changes in their life and live joyfully.”  Okay, that was off the top of my head, it could probably be better, but it’s a start.
  • And lastly, create a description of each person in the group – this piggy-backs on last week’s shared visions a bit.  We can use adjectives, a slogan or zippy saying or whatever creative expression comes our way. I still need to work on this one as well.

I’m sure you can see how this incubator just pumps you up and motivates you each week.  It’s fun.  It’s focused.  And it gives you just the kick you need to get moving and get stuff done.  I really look forward to each session.  I wonder what happens when our four weeks are up??

This is the Day…

This is the day your life will surely change.
This is the day when things fall into place.

Really, honestly, truly, today is the day when my life will surely change and this is the day when things fall into place.  Yes, it’s been that good of a day.  Almost a new beginning if you will.

I finally sat down and made some awesome realizations.  Stuff that for some reason, for the past three or so weeks, I just wasn’t able to see.  And you know what?  To be short and sweet, today I was reminded of the following…everything that’s been going on lately isn’t even about me. It’s about other people reacting to their own crap based on their own past, their own actions and their own choices.

So while this whole thing still hurts more than I’m comfortable with and doesn’t make me feel any more valued or appreciated (long story) it at least helps to remind me that I need to worry about myself and not everyone else and their fucked up thoughts and actions (hello, cyber-stalking?  seriously? who does that sort of fucked up shit?!?  for fun no less.)

So all of this combined with yesterday’s great news (I can happily and comfortably step away from my site and focus on my own biz, which excites me to no end!) has made for a great beginning.  So yes, this IS the day and I can’t wait to finally fully invest in my LWL  Incubator program.

Let’s drink to that *cheers* 

Oh Happy Day!!!

You can’t see me right now, but I’m so freakin’ excited that I’m doing the happy dance right here and now with a shit-eating grin from ear to ear!

To keep it short but sweet, basically, I have found someone to take over my current job for me so that I can focus on my new endeavors.  To those of you that know my through my previous blogs (and that’s only maybe a couple) will know that this is a HUGE deal for me and something I’ve been hoping to do for quite some time now.

So yes, I’m just a little more than thrilled that it’s finally come to be.  Just goes to show you, you get what you ask for!  Thank you God, my gratitude is ENORMOUS!

How Cool Is This?

The Depression and World War II have always held a bit of fascination with me.  I’m thinking that more than likely it’s because I spent a lot of time around my grandmother and her friends and family.  Some of my fondest memories of her were the times when she and her girlfriends and cousins would all sit around and tell stories from during the War.  Let me just say, they knew how to have fun, even while working hard in the factories.

Imagine my surprise when I saw that the Library of Congress has added some photos from the 30’s and 40’s up on Flickr!  They’re color photos no less.  It’s amazing how pure and clear those images are.  I love looking at photos of women from that era.  The circus photos are pretty cool too – then again, I read Water for Elephants not all that long ago, so this was neat in that it supplied still more photos to go along with that story.

Some of my favorites (though with 1500 or so photos, it will take me a while to get through all of them):

Backstage at the Girlie Show

Backstage at the Girlie Show

Going to Town on a Sunday Afternoon

Going to Town on a Sunday Afternoon

Migratory Workers Outside a “Juke Joint”

Woman Putting on Lipstick

Woman Putting on Lipstick

A Girl Riveting Machine Operator

A Girl Riveting Machine Operator

They also have a set up from News in the 1910’s, but for me, that just doesn’t peak my interest as much.