The Hubby’s Antics

Shortly after coming back from dinner and dropping off our friend I change into my oh, so sexy PJs. I sit down at the laptop to do a quick email check and which point the hubby looks to me and says all vague-like, “um, I need to go up the street for a minute.”

Me: Huh?
Him: Well, I’m doing work on the servers and I accidentally blocked our home IP.
Me: ?
Him: I did this earlier today. I just went up the street to the condos and used someone’s network.
Me: um…
Him: I’ll be right back.
Me: This isn’t just some excuse for you to meet up with some hoochie who will suck your c0ck, is it?
Him: *laughing* No. You can come with me.
Me: Okay, but I’m driving since you’ve been drinking.

We’re back now and the server is reset. For the record, it’s easier to borrow a WiFi connection while sitting curbside in a neighborhood full of houses than curbside outside of an apartment/condo complex. You know, in case you ever need to borrow someone’s unprotected WiFi connection.

Trash TV – I’ll Admit it, I Watch it. Last Night, I LOVED it!

Let me start with saying a rousing Thank God!!! That psycho bitch Lacey is finally gone! There’s no way that Bret Michael’s couldn’t see what a nut job that girl was. Talk about producers staging things. The obviously kept her around just for “good TV.” But man, it was totally worth it. She’s a whack job.

And now, let’s move on to The Hills over on MTV. Elodie is my new best friend. Again, I’m sure it was totally edited and staged to come off the way it did. But man, that was awesome! They’ve got a great video of the awesomeness up on Gawker. Its so awesome, we watched it twice last night and then the hubby and I watched the clip again this morning. Good stuff, I tell ya!

So here’s a clip where the fine folks over at Canadian MTV are having a phone interview with my new BFF, Elodie. Come on, how could you not love this gal?!

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She’s Crafty: Embracing My Inner CraftGirl

I’ve decided that I’m going to learn to knit. It’s something I’ve been thinking about for the past 2-3 years. I picked up the Stitch & Bitch book a couple years back, thinking I could teach myself, but well, I, um, don’t seem to do so well with manual-type directions. How embarrassing to have to admit. So I’m thinking it’s time to call in the professionals.

My grandmother was an awesome crocheter, but I never got into it. Thing is, I was good – well, as good as someone that’s not into it can be. I’ve always been told that I’m creative, but I’ve never really done much with it. Though I can personalize a picture frame like nobody’s business.

Truth be told, when it comes to spending my time crafting, well, I’d much rather be reading a book. But maybe knitting will be better. Like, I can knit while watching TV. Or while waiting in the car (you’d be surprised how much waiting in cars I actually do). I think it will be fun.

So now, while I’m home sick, and can’t very well make a slew of phone calls. I seem to be alternating between a horribly stuffed up nose and losing my voice all day – I sound horrible enough that even a telemarketer offered to call me back in a few days. In my defense though, I shot out a gazillion emails regarding reaching out to local life coaches. I’m still on target. Go me.

So yeah, I’m going to learn to knit. Wish me luck!

Recalling Childhood Memories Through Food

When I’m sick I don’t tend to get whiney and whimpy. I’m more than able to take care of myself. But I do tend to crave food from my childhood. Sadly, this can be a challenge as I either can’t get the foods since I’m not in Jersey or because I never learned how to cook or bake our Hungarian specialties (and in my childlike, bastardized Hungarian, I only seem to mutilate the words, so I can’t even google the recipes – trust me, I’ve tried). Well, as luck would have it, last night we decided to go to one of the local (major), Jewish deli’s, Jerry’s for some chicken noodle soup.

Imagine my surprise when along with our pickles came pickled green tomatoes!!! Dude, I was totally craving these just the other day wondering where I could find green tomatoes so I could try my hand at pickling. Granted, they weren’t quite like my grandmothers (far too much vinegar, and too hard), but it worked.

I also lucked out and remembered that Jerry’s has stuffed cabbage on the menu! Again, not nearly as good as my grandmothers (a bit too dry and sweet), but damn, it hit the spot. I mean, I haven’t had stuffed cabbage in close to 20 or so years. FWIW, the chicken noodle tasted just as good as my grandmothers (especially once I loaded it up on salt – one of the few things outside of eggs, fries and enchiladas that I will salt). Totally grubbing food. And the cherry vodka, cherry coke was kickass as well – and no, my grandmother never made cherry vodka cokes (she was a screwdriver kind of gal!)

As we perused the menu, I got excited once again thinking that I might have some apricot hamantashen (YUM!). Only I recalled the state of the bakery counter and realized that along with all the other traditional Jewish cakes and pastries, due to Rosh Hashanah, they were sold out of everything. Even today, when I sent the hubby back for still more chicken noodle soup, I asked about the hamantashen and nope, all out of the apricot, but I didn’t feel like prune or poppyseed (but I did get some chocolate rugalah as a consolation prize). I’ve got to search this out further though, as I probably haven’t had hamantashen in over 20 years since my grandmother couldn’t make it nearly as well as her mother or her sister, she never tried (and instead excelled at another kind of cookie that I can’t for the life of me remember the name of).

I was basically raised as a Catholic girl eating Hungarian ethnic foods – I know nothing of my mother’s Irish or Scottish heritage. I realized, after visiting Jerry’s that it really doesn’t matter much if one is Polish, Chechz, Hungarian or any other Slavic-Russian state, it’s all pretty much the same food and the same terms, just slightly different recipes. In fact, it’s not so much about being from one country or another it’s all pretty regional. Funny how out here in CA (or I’d guess anyone not familiar with the eastern European communities), it’s really just all considered “Jewish” food regardless of nationality.

EIther way, it was a nice way to indulge in some comfort food from my childhood. And dammit, I’m going get me some apricot hamantashen before the month is out! If Jerry’s is out, I’ll try Art’s or Canters. Worse case, I’ll hit up every Jewish bakery on Fairfax. Now that I know it’s not just a Hungarian thing, I’m sure I can find it.

Here’s a photo of the apricot hamantashen – though in our family it was made in a thin, “bowtie” shape and dusted with powder sugar.

Now can someone please tell me what the poppyseed “strudel” thing is called (though I liked the prune one better). And if anyone has any idea how to make Hungarian Chicken and Rice (with paprika) I’ll be your best friend forever and ever.

I’m Bored.

I’m going on day two of being stranded home, car-less. It’s nothing major, my car is just in the shop for some warranty work and some new belts. But since the hubby works late, we just drop the car off and pick it up before closing. So instead, I’m just hanging out here at home. Bored.

I spent most of yesterday on the phone working out our upcoming Vegas spa package and doing online research for the upcoming new experience. Of course, I could still be doing research and reading text and whatnot, but right now, I’m just relaxing. Bored.

I think I’m going to walk to the grocery store and hit up Starbucks in a bit. I think I just might be ready to embrace the pre-season, pumpkin spice latte. And hey, at least I’d be working off the latte considering it’s about 3 mile trip.

Now aren’t you glad I shared my boredom with you? Now you too can be bored silly just by reading along 😉

How Do You Prefer Things to Be?

In order to effect true positive change in your experience, you must disregard how things are – as well as how others are seeing you – and give more of your attention to the way you prefer things to be.

This will be my focus for today. I seem to have quite a few things knocking at my door and pulling me in different directions. But today, today I will give my attention to the way that I’d prefer things to be.

In fact, today, I’ll be writing that list. Heck, if a list can help attract a mate or a great job (really, I highly suggest it!), then why not use it to focus your energy on the very things you want to attract, right? The key is to focus and not let other concerns, challenges, issues or thoughts pull that focus away.

So what will your attention be on? How do you prefer things to be?

Cha…Cha…Cha…Changes

Hair style is the final tip-off whether or not a woman really knows herself — Hubert de Givenchy, Vogue, July 1985

I did it. Well, to be honest, I do it quite frequently, about every year or so. But this time, this time it was different. This time I went s.h.o.r.t. Even my hairdresser said it was the shortest she’s cut it in the four+ years that she’s been doing my hair. It’s different, that’s for sure.

I love it though. And I feel like I needed the change. I’m that type of person that goes and gets her haircut when she wants to bring on some new life experiences. I typically get one right before I get a job, or as soon as I get a new job. I like the energy and the process of letting go.

The hubby, well, he hasn’t yet voiced an opinion (as he was a fan of my long hair and tended to like it better straight rather than curly – and that nearly never happened!). He said he’ll wait and see if it grows on him. Then again, he’ll also need to “see” it again when I let it go curly instead of straight. He just needs to remember that it’s only hair and well, mine grows like a well watered, weed and can be full on long again by spring if I so desired.

Either way…bring on the changes, baby!