Archive for August, 2008

Sometimes You Just Need to Know When to Call it Quits

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

I’ve been focusing so much on expanding my business and taking it to the next level, that I’ve just been devouring every ebook and teleseminar that I’ve come across.  At the same time, a couple of folks have decided that the Aug/Sept time frame is the PERFECT time for back to back to back teleseminars.

Enough is enough. While I appreciate all the information, I think it’s time that I take a break and just focus on the tools that I already have.  There’s such a thing as information overload and it seems to be coming up my path.  I don’t want to fizzle out before I completely get going.

So as amazing as these many, many teleseminars, books and ebooks are, I think I just need to walk away for a bit.  Maybe that’s the message behind overbooking myself with three teleseminars all scheduled for the same time, same day and then falling asleep in the middle of the one I chose to listen to.

I have no doubt that I’ll continue to get the right information for me, as it’s needed - and I’ll continue to share this info with my friends. But for now…I’m on a break.  If I need a little procrastination help, there’s always the upcoming Ireland trip ;-)

Help, I Need Ideas…

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

I’ve decided that I want to hold off on doing giveaways on my site for a while.  Or at least until I make some final decisions on our new design and whatnot.  Until then, I need something fun to write about.

Basically, it’s a site for women, about women.  I typically tell people that we talk about anything that women talk about when they get together.  And I don’t know about you guys, but when my friends get together for book club, the topics cover everything from parenting to porn, to recipes, vacation and fashion.  You name it.

Thing is, I’m just stuck for topics to write about.  Mind you, I could come up with a gazillion ideas for YOU to write about.  But for me, yeah, not so much.

So any topic ideas?  Or anything you might want to share?

One of My Favorite Things About the Fall…

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

Spa Week baby!  It’s the coolest thing, you can any treatment from botox to a massage to a facial or body scrub all for $50!!!  It’s a great way to check out a spa to decide if it’s one you might want to go back to later. There seems to be less spas participating this fall, compared to last spring, but there’s still a good amount in both LA and the OC.

If you’re in the LA area, I can’t recommend Skin Haven enough.  I had the herbology scrub there last Spa Week and it was divine!  Tell them I sent ya.

All I need now is a pumpkin spice latte and I’ll be a happy gal.  Well, that and maybe some cooler weather.

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Sommer Designs

And now, completely unrelated to the fall (kinda - “end of summer” means fall, right?)…a good friend and fellow LWLer, Sommer Designs is celebrating the end of summer by giving away this bee-you-tee-ful apron.  Just go here and leave her a comment letting her know just how talented she is (kidding, though she is talented).  Good luck!

My New Allergy Medicine is Messing With Me

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

It not only knocks me out totally and completely for the night, but it gives me some messed up dreams.  Today, I was dreaming that my ears were bleeding.  Yet this caused no concern on my “friend’s” part.  And or course, I don’t this had anything to do with the earlier part of the dream where I was in India getting ready to take a cruise (huh?) but spending all my time wandering around taking pictures.  Again, all with some “friend” that I don’t recognize.

And all of this is since I started the new allergy meds (something called Xyzal along with some inhaler thing called Patanase).  Funny thing, all that itching last week, all that torture, even more torture during the prick test and well, nothing showed up as causing an allergic reaction.  Well, nothing except the histamine reaction showing that I indeed was having a reaction to something. Now we just wait on the blood results and hope I don’t have to do the prick test all over again.

Like Wine?

Tuesday, August 26th, 2008

Find out what Gary Vaynerchuck has to say about enjoying wine for the casual wine drinker.  While there, be sure to leave a comment with your current favorite wine and you could win a copy of Gary’s book.  What a great way to start a holiday weekend. But hurry, the contest closes at midnight the 31st!

Good luck!!

What’s Your Favorite Mascara?

Monday, August 25th, 2008

I need your help.  I learned from a friend of mine that my lashes will hold their curl better with a “gel based” mascara.  Of course, this make up artist friend of mine suggested some high end product.  Now I don’t mind spending the money from time to time, especially if the product works great.  But…I only wear make up once or twice a week.  Which of course means, I never get my money’s worth out of a full tube.

So I’m hoping to find a good drugstore brand.  I know all the magazines rave about the pink miracle, Great Lash, but I just can’t get behind it.  The wand is too wimpy for my tastes.  So I thought I’d ask the mightly blogsophere.

Help a gal out - what’s your favorite mascara and why?

And now we return to trying to ditch this migraine.  You can seem to set a clock by my migraines and when I need a chiropractic adjustment.

What in the World Was I Thinking?

Monday, August 25th, 2008

Why did I think that writing up a newsletter on a Monday would be a good idea? Honestly, I seem to have no desire to do much of anything on Mondays.  But nope, I’ve got to finish updating our books, write this blog, a newsletter, a biz blog post and prep this week’s blog posts for my site…today.  Yeah, that’s some motivating stuff.  I’ll work on it all though, that’s for sure.  I’m all about the forward motion lately.

I’ve been participating daily in the 29 Days of Giving (this is the third, different link I’ve used for this event) and I’ve had some very interesting things happen as a result.  I’ve also been focusing more and more on setting my intentions and asking for what I want.  Needless to say, yesterday was an interesting day and brought me some interesting ideas and people.

Yesterday was a local LWL event.  It was held at the Equinox Spa & Gym over in Century City.  Let me just say, this place has an amazing set up.  It’s a perfect party location.  Very cool.  It was a fun event, tons of women, many great ideas, fun nibbles, interesting drinks (mine was just way too strong for me to enjoy, so I stuck to the Her energy drinks and water), and a goody bag to boot!  Aside from the hour or so when the sun was directly upon us, all was good.

I think my favorite part of the event though, was the networking, the mingling about and the catching up with folks.  With many networking groups it’s all about “hi, this is what I do, how can you help me?”  But with LWL, it’s such a casual event.  One minute you’re chatting with someone, the next, they’re introducing you to someone that might be able to help you…but it’s all natural and organic.  It’s not about what’s in it for them, it’s about genuinely wanting to help out your fellow LWLers.  It’s funny how you can just casually say something to someone in this group and the idea just explodes.

Case in point…I mentioned that I have a book idea and a friend referred me to her sister who works in publishing (who I had already been talking to and wanted to hook me up with some authors she knows).  Next think I know, they’re talking agents.  Wow, this could will really happen.

Second example…I was mentioning my upcoming workshop to a few gals and they got me to not only raise my price for the event, but to offer up a test-run class for a half the price (still more than I was originally planning to charge) in just two weeks.  I mean this went from casual mention to actual planned event in the course of an hour!  Absolutely amazing.

Now it’s an hour after I had to step away from this post to take a call, so I’m going to get to work.

Do You Use Affiliate Programs?

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

I use them for my business, but outside of some amazon action on my website, I can’t say I’ve used them much.  I was poking around the web asking my good friend, Google for some advice on how to create a landing page (I’m SO not a web designer!) and stumbled upon these guys…Storestacker.com.

I can’t tell for sure since their site is closed (only testimonials up right now) until the 28th, but it seems like it’s a way to set up your own superstore.  So instead of struggling with Amazon (and boy howdy do I seem to struggle with that site) or eBay, you can use them to set up your own storefront.  Could definitely be interesting, especially if you tend to promote some bigger ticketed items or run a niche community or blog.  I’m very interested to learn more once they relaunch on the 28th.

So I ask you, do you use any sort of affiliate program to make a little pocket change off of your blog or your business?

Oh No, Baby Spiders!!

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

I just got in a bit ago from picking the hubs up at the airport and then a quick dinner in Hermosa Beach.  We’re laying on the couch with the boys and I look to the window.  I notice a BUNCH of little black dots all over my curtains.  Thinking they must be bugs of some sort (I did just vacuum the other day), I got up to get a closer look.

Yep, bunches of baby spiders are sleeping on my curtains!  Off to grab the Dyson - who cares if it’s midnight, I have baby spiders!  I sucked them all up.  Of course, now they’re living my my empty canister (since it was just dumped clean the other day).  Really, I hate spiders - babies or not.

And of course, now I’m imagining that my body is covered in little, baby spiders.  Gross!

When the Husband is Away…

Wednesday, August 20th, 2008

…the wife will scratch!

Okay, I’m down to the final countdown here.  My appointment is at 2:30 tomorrow.  I just need to make it through tonight.  Luckily, the itching seems to much more tame today.  I’m thinking it just means that I’m getting used to being without meds again.  Then agian, I typically go scratching crazy at night, so who knows.

I did decide that today was the day for errands.  Amazing how much earlier I can wake up when I go to bed earlier - funny how that works.  I had to pick up some meds, drop off some food at the local food bank (thank you 29 Days of Giving), and head out to J Crew to see if those $50 flipflops are on sale yet (they are - $35 at 30% off — I’d happily pay $25 for them though I didn’t like the way they fit).

After the errands, I spent most of the day working on biz stuff - emails, bookkeeping (half-way!!), and reading some biz stuff.  I find that I set these priorities and tasks for myself and my business, but then life happens and I keep putting things off.  I’ve been much better this week though, so I hope to keep this momentum going.

I also decided to look at a condo today.  The hubs actually looked at it on Sunday while I was at book club and asked that I check it out this week.  It’s a nice complex, right down the street, quiet, has a rec room (where I could lead workshops), pool, gym, blah, blah.  It’s a bit bigger than I’d think we’d need with PLENTY of storage which of course means that sadly, we’d easily be able to fill up all that space.  I think it might be a bit out of our price range, but who knows.  It’s definitelly nice to at least get the energy flowing in the direction of creating a new living space.  There’s one smaller one a town or two over that he’d like me to look at as well so I’ll call on that tomorrow.

Now…it’s time for dinner and a chick flick.