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His Mis-Spent Youth is Costing Me

I seriously think the little bugger has eaten enough wires when he was a puppy (killed at least two lamps that I can recall) that his new no-bark collar just isn’t strong enough.

*sigh*

He’s not barking as much or as loud, or as crazy, but dammit, he’s still barking.  And barking for stretches.  And the thing works, I tested it to be sure.  Plus, you can tell when it’s hit the max charge in his succession of barks because he’ll stop and take some breaths.

Crazy dog.  Who knew that all that wire chewing would make him immune to the collar.  Come on, look how tiny he was.  He could barely even reach the futon standing on his back legs.

Mind you, to get a bigger charge, I have to get a much more expensive collar and it’s not like I can return this one.

The things we do for peace in this house…

Stupid Ireland Planning: And So it Continues

I’m so frustrated!  The travel agent shot me an email and it turns out the hotel in Killarney that I wanted is no longer available.  Well, I really don’t like any of the other options.  I really wanted something small, family run and walking distance to the pubs and nightlife.

I’m okay with that most of what we wanted wasn’t actually IN Killarney anyway.  And it was pretty expensive compared to the other cities.  As someone once said in a review…there’s a reason Rick Steves doesn’t mention Killarney in more than a couple of sentences.  Turns out it’s a pretty major, touristy sort of place.

And well, I’m not going on vacation to Ireland, land of the very hospitable and courteous, family run inns and B&Bs to stay in some highfalutin (my wording), luxury hotel to attend the spa and eat in the actual hotel.  Not quite are thing, so now I have to rethink everything.

I’m thinking either Cork and a B&B in Dingle or Kenmare and a B&B in Dingle.  Or something like that.  Then we’ll just do Jury’s Inn in Galway.  I’m just bummed that I have to do still more research.  There’s a reason I decided to use a travel agent…to save time and not have to do the research, but it turns out I’m still spending the time and doing the research.

So frustrating.  I’m a bit bummed. I’m sure it will all work out for the best, but still.  I  just wanted to vent.  Feel free to pass along any suggestions. I’m open to anything at this point.  Yikes, it’s only 6 weeks away!!!

Totally unrelated, I found out that one of my girl crushes, Samantha Brown has a new Passport show out.  How did I not know that?  More importantly, how did I not know she was here in LA not too long ago and has also recently been to Santa Fe (drinking margaritas, eating enchiladas with green chile and hanging out at my all time favorite spa..ever!)  How do I miss these things?

Throw it Overboard & See if it Can Swim: Squeeze @ the Orpheum

Killer show.  Killer Seats.  Of course, not having even looked at the tickets, I didn’t realize how good they were, so I didn’t bring my camera.  At least this time around I had my own blackberry handy to take a couple of (crappy) pictures.

The show itself was incredible.  I don’t know when I last went to a concert where I danced so much.  This was the kind of show that reminded you why you used to go to concerts back when you were younger.  The energy of the crowd was great and everyone was up singing and dancing.  Just awesome!

Squeeze @ The Orpheum 9.10.08

Squeeze @ The Orpheum 9.10.08

Next concert, whenever that may be, I’ll have better photos.  We finally ordered my camera upgrade and we should be getting it shortly.  It should actually have some low light, image stableization abilities which will be great for shooting during shows (with a basic point & shoot).  Can’t wait.

Special Report or Blogging Tip of the Day?

So I finally got around to writing my “special report” to use on my biz site.  I love how I fought myself for hours days weeks months, yet when it comes down to it, I was able to write it up in under an hour (if you rule out twitter and blogging breaks and well, all sorts of procrastination shenanigans in general).

I even managed to avoid writing it to take a break from writing this up to actually write and submit an article on some things I learned about being a solopreneur in response to a pitch.  Go figure.  I’m actually avoiding writing, by well, writing – did I mention that this is a pre-dated post that I wrote while avoiding writing my other stuff?

Anyway (or as they say in Jersey, anyways…).  The more that I think of it, the more I think that it (the first, original article I was writing this post about) might work better as a tip of the day or audio clip sort of thing.  I have seven tips, so I can easily break it out over 7 days.  Or I could add three more tips and it could be a two week e-course sort of thing.

Which would you be more interested in receiving a bonus…a 3-5 page “special report” on x# of ways to improve your blogging, a 5-7day, tip-of-the-day sort of email (audio? email?), or a 10 day e-course in either audio or email format?

And just because I think it bears repeating…please keep in mind, this is my personal blog and I do not practice what I preach.  It’s just for me, not for business.

Why Isn’t Sushi Bite-Sized?

No really?  I don’t get it.  In all honesty, I’m not a native Californian gal and never even had sushi until about 6 or so years ago.  Even then it was only California rolls (I love those things!).  I slowly progressed to spicy tuna rolls. Yes, still rolls.

To be totally and completely honest, I just can’t get into the whole chunks of raw fish on a wad of rice.  It’s not that I’m repulsed by the raw fish (I love raw and seared tuna), but well, it’s just too big.  There’s just now way that I can take a bite out of the fish to make it more manageable and we all know that there’s just no knives when it comes to sushi.

Last night I met up with a LWL gal friend and she was craving, what else, you guessed it, sushi.  I told her that I was fine as long as she knew that I only ate rolls.  All was good (though my CA roll was pretty lame) and as expected, the conversation was great.  But all in all, it still makes me wonder…why isn’t sushi bite-sized?

What Magazines Do You Read?

Which of course, in my case includes those magazines that you get but never actually read.

I try to keep my magazine subscriptions to a decent, readable limit.  Unfortunately, that’s rarely the case.  I still have about 4 months of back issues of Marie Claire.  And of course, some of my subscriptions won’t be getting renewed this time around.

I currently have subscriptions to the following:

  • Redbook (actually love it & read it cover to cover)
  • Marie Claire (rarely read it)
  • Weight Watchers (like the recipes)
  • Budget Travel (usually read it cover to cover)
  • Glamour (great fluff magazine, easy to read & great for traveling)
  • Pink (awesome business mag & I’m not just saying that because the blogged one of my articles)
  • Venus (does absolutely nothing for me since I’m not into indy-music or funky, indy-crafting – it sounded cool at the time)
  • Mac | Life (great mag for all things Mac & I usually read what pertains to me)

Then there are the husbands many subscriptions to music magazines, vintage guitar magazines, sound engineering magazines and his Photoshop magazines and whatever music industry ones he gets at work.  Yeah, it’s a bit much.  The good news, I tend to recycle my magazines at the local hospital.  So at least more than one person is getting something out of it.

What magazines do you read and why?  What do you subscribe to and don’t read (for me that’s Marie Claire and Venus)?

Face It, I’m Getting Older

I was watching the VMAs earlier and realized that lord help me, but I’m getting older.  I didn’t recognize half the performers.  I thought most of the nominated songs sounded like crap.  Hell, I tend to think that most music out there today sounds like crap (makes me a fun date for a concert – Speaking of…Squeeze show is on Friday..woohoo!).  And well, I just didn’t get half the outfits or the odd hairstyles.  I did happen to love the host Russell Brand (but I also noticed no one else in the audience seemed to enjoy his humor or his politics or thoughts on promise rings).

And don’t even get me started on the guy who kept grabbing his crotch.  What the fuck was that all about?!?!  I mean what civilized human would do such a thing?  In public?  On an internationally televised broadcast???  And who the hell wears a hoodie to an awards show when you’re actually up for an award or two?!?!

Maybe I shouldn’t have been watching a Cribs marathon leading up to the VMAs.  Maybe I shouldn’t have gone out to eat at some trendy new place on Sunset where all the women were wearing far too much eye make-up and the men were wearing more product than I was.

I guess we should just face it…I’m at that point where I’m becoming my mother (or in my case, my grandmother since she’s the one that raised me when my mom passed).  I never would have seen that one coming looking into my future.  So very sad.

So what sort of thing drives you crazy nowadays that never used to?  Are you any closer to becoming your parents?

Just Some Thoughts on Palin as VP

I’ll admit it.  I’m not the most politically aware, and I’m certainly not the most politically active. But when I feel strongly about something, well, I just can’t help it.  And right now, my biggest issue with Sarah Palin (who I actually accidentally called “Sarah Plain” as in Sarah Plain and Tall, the other night *yikes*) is the fact that she has a newborn child at home (don’t even get me started on the fact that she’s not leaving him at home or backstage where it’s quieter so he can sleep).  And not just any newborn, but a newborn child with special needs.

A little background on me…I spent three years in my former, pre-blogger, post-teaching life working with children and adults with disabilities.  In particular, most of my clients were in residental facilities (many of which no longer had any parental or familial involvment).  While I don’t know the challenges of raising a child with disabilities firsthand, I do know the challenge of teaching a child with disabilities as well as working with parents and caregivers to help them work with their clients and children. In fact, I was the person that was consulted for training and behavioral therapy and modification as well as treatment.

It’s hard work.  Really hard work.  The kind of work that doesn’t go away.  I mean, everything you do, every plan you make, every single decision involves and revolves around that individual, that family member with special needs.  There’s no escaping it.  There’s no avoiding it (short of putting that individual in a residential facility of sorts).  And from what I understand working closely with parents, it’s even more invasive, more pervasive when it comes to raising that newborn with special needs – especially when it comes to language and communication skills.

I’m sorry, but I just don’t think this is the right time for Sarah Palin to run for VP.  Let this child grow and develop before taking on such an all emcompasing task as oh, running as the second in charge of the US.  Try again in a few years maybe.  But now is not the time.  Something will have to give in her life (and the fact that there’s yet another new baby on the way makes that household even more insane – has nothing to do with family values, I’m talking strictly about the actual family dynamics of the household since I’m assuming the teenage daughter will still live at home with her newborn and her parents for a few more years).

I have not raised a family member with special needs.  I am not a mom (outside of being a loving mom to my pets).  But I am someone that has direct experience and has had direct influence in the treatment and behaviors of individuals with special needs.  I know quite a bit about this subject.  But if you want to hear from someone with real experience, both as a mom to not one, but two children with special needs, as well as a career woman, then check out Penelope Trunk’s thoughts on this issue.  It might help to put a little perspective on the issue.

Now back to my regularly scheduled blog about random and mundane thoughts and activities and well, nothing that’s regularly scheduled at all…

Pinkberry Event: Calling My LA Peeps*

Apparently, I know more people than I realized I knew.  Not only was I invited to all that MTV VMA stuff as a blogger, but my blogging also got me an interview (asking about my “freelancing”), and now, I’m invited to a special Pinkberry blogging event (thanks for the invite Tara!).

Man, blogging is good and offers some pretty cool rewards.  Maybe I should start doing some beauty and spa blogging 😉

Any local folks care to join me at this event?  Rumor has it they’ll not only will they have a DJ spinning and happy times mingling going on, but you’ll also get to taste the newest flavor.  Did I mention the goody bag? Sound pretty exciting if you ask me.

Care to come along?? It’s Tue. Sep. 9, 2008 from 7:00 to 9:00 PM

*did I seriously just say PEEPS???